Personal Style
How to Define Your Personal Style
Fashion has always been a powerful tool for self-expression — and you have the power to harness it in creating your own personal style.
For those not sure how to define your own unique style, this article is just for you. Personal style can be a fluid definition since fashion is so vast and ever-changing. Fashion gives us the power and freedom to define, re-define, explore, and choose from a variety of amazing style groups: Classic, Casual, Boho, Grunge, Preppy, Punk Rock, Sportswear, and Streetwear.
Fashion is one of the most effective communication tools ever. Our clothing selection is the first form of communication to the world — it’s our voice without words.
It’s important to own our individuality and remain authentic to who we are. But to be fair and honest, there were seasons I had no clue who I was — I was in between being and becoming my best self. For those still exploring what style groups fit you best, take style tips from style magazines, New York, Paris, and L.A. fashion weeks, runway shows, personal stylists, and everyday street influencers around you.
When you see an outfit you like, figure out what exactly drew your attention. Was it the fit? The color combination? The comfort or casualness of the look? The mix of fabrics and prints? Or was it the energy and vibe that attracted you? These are all great areas to start honing in on when discovering looks that fit your body type, style, and energy. Always stay true to what feels comfortable for you.
Let’s also make it a point to compliment those we see wearing a cute outfit that sparks our attention. When someone pays me a compliment, it always makes me smile — so let’s pay it forward with kindness and spread the love.
Never stop trying out various styles. With consistency you’ll begin to curate your own sense of uniqueness. It’s always helpful to look in the mirror daily and say out loud, “I AM BEAUTIFUL. I AM AMAZING” — regardless of whether you feel it or not! Our spoken words begin to stimulate, populate, grow, and attract everything our voice speaks into the atmosphere. I’m convinced whatever you wear with confidence has the power to create a trend.
Consider investing in a stylist if you: want to create fresh new looks using clothes from your own closet; want help creating a more defined style to attract bigger, brighter opportunities; don’t have time to shop for yourself; or want a new look but aren’t sure how to create it on your own. Most stylists — like myself — offer free consultations and love speaking with potential clients.
Other easy ways to explore style without a stylist: browse iconic magazines like Essence, Cosmopolitan, Harper’s Bazaar, and Vogue, and build inspiration boards on Pinterest. Knowledge is power — and exploring regularly begins an unimaginable process of self-discovery. Remember: never fear creating your own unique style from the inside out.